Love Transforms

I wanna talk about love...

I've talked a little bit about fruits and veggies, and farmers markets, and dealing with my issues..basically some of what I think has me feeling good and living a good life in this city. So now I want to talk about love..and the power it has.

I've been in my relationship for a little over 4 years and I'm happy to say, I'm in love with Grigori! We have such a phenomenal relationship and we both recognize it as so. But it wasn't always this way, we definitely had it rough in the beginning. But we got through it...together. I think somehow intuitively we both knew we would make it to the "other side" and enjoy what we have now. We have a love that is supportive, open, warm, hot, understanding and honest.

Years ago though, before I met Grigori, I was lost when it came to relationships. I had my fair share (and then some!) of unhealthy choices in men. I learned while first dating Grigori, that I didn't think very highly of myself when it came to being a competent partner. Oh, sure I knew I was an intelligent woman, independent, very assertive and knew what I wanted. But I didn't care about myself enough to really have the kind of relationship I deserved. Since I didn't think I deserved much, I made poor choices around relationships. Sound familiar? Oh I think it does. I know too many women who've had this happen to them.

Well if that's you, I'm here to say, love yourself first. One cause of our conflicts was due to me really not loving myself, not accepting myself, not taking care of my own issues or my own needs. When I finally started to take care of my "business" so to speak, that's when things between us began to change...I've found that what a woman does (in the relationship), a man will follow. So if you take care of things, the other will recognize your value, because you do.

While my past relationships were downward spirals, my relationship with Grigori, is an absolute upward spiral. The more I care and take care of myself, love myself, the more in-love I find myself with me, and the more in love we are with each other. I'm fortunate to have found a man who truly supports me in all that I want to do that is healthy for me. So I'd say he's been a great choice for my health!

Love has transformed my health..and my health continues to tranform my world...

Live a good life,